Cuestionario para personalizar ceremonia

Ceremonia Interdenominacional

Por favor, escriba la siguiente información para ayudarnos a personalizar su ceremonia.

Queremos que este sea un momento inolvidable.

Fecha de la Ceremonia:_________

Hora de la ceremonia:____________

Lugar donde se efectuará la Ceremonia

Nombre del hotel_________________ 

Ubicación_________________________

(Playa, gazebo de boda, jardín, etcetera)

Nombre de Coordinadora de boda_____________              

Tipo de ceremonia deseada           

Seleccione una de las siguientes opciones:                                               

                                                                                                           

____  Civil y Religiosa                                   

(Intercambio de anillos se lleva a cabo durante la ceremonia religiosa)                                   

____  Religiosa  - Creencias religiosas: ____________________________

_____Simbólica                                    (Católica, cristiana, sin denominación, judía, otra)

Fecha en que se llevó a cabo la ceremonia civil __________                       

_____ Renovación de votos                                               

¿Cuántos años celebran de matrimonio? ___________            

Nombres de los hijos __________________________________________

Información sobre los invitados                       

Número de invitados que estarán presentes en la ceremonia ____________

Información sobre la Novia          

Nombre completo para certificado:                                      

__________________________________

Nombre durante la ceremonia:

________________________

Información sobre el Novio

Nombre completo para certificado:

_____________________________

Nombre durante la ceremonia

____________________                                              

           

Información sobre la ceremonia

Cualquier información que nos ayude a hacer que su ceremonia sea más personalizada.

Lecturas especiales: _____________________________________________________

Leídas por :  Ministro _______ o Invitados__________________________________

Habrá intercambio de anillos:____________ (Sí) ______________ (No)  

Tienen sus propios votos: _____           Se usarán los votos tradicionales _______

Otro ________________________

¿Es este su primer matrimonio? _____________ (Sí) ______________ (No)

¿Tienen hijos de un matrimonio previo? _______ (Sí) _____________ (No)

Nombres de los hijos:

_________________________________________________                       

Quiere que se mencione a alguna persona durante la ceremonia?

_____________________________________________________________

Nombres y relación con los novios: _________________________________

Ayúdanos contestando ambos estas preguntas para hacer tu ceremonia más

personalizada:

¿Cómo se conocieron? ________________________________________

___________________________________________________________

¿Hace cuánto tiempo se conocen? ____________________

¿Qué actividades/hobbies disfrutan haciendo juntos?

 ______________________________________________________________

______________________________________________________________

La pareja se presentará como: _____________________________

Ejemplos: Sr. y Sra. Roberto Pérez; María y Roberto, marido y mujer ; María y Roberto Pérez o 

como ustedes prefieran.)

"Get to know you" questionnaire

"Get to know you" questionnaire

Interdenominational Ceremony

Please send us the following information to help us "get to know 

you".  We want to create a very meaningful ceremony and 

personalize it as much as you want!

Wedding Date:________________

Time of Ceremony:_____________

Location of Ceremony

Name of hotel ________________________

Wedding coordinator_____________

Type of Ceremony                                                           

                                                                                                           

____  Civil and Religious Ceremony                                   

(Exchange of rings will be done during religious)                                   

____  Religious/Symbolic Ceremony                                                

          Date of Civil Ceremony __________                       

_____ Renewal of Vows                                               

Married for how many years? ___________            

Guest Information                       

How many people will be attending ____________

Bride’s Information                        

Full Legal Name for Certificate:      

________________________________________________

Preferred Name: _____________

(To be used during ceremony)      

Groom’s Information

Full Legal Name for Certificate:

________________________________________________

Preferred Name: _____________                  

 (To be used during ceremony)

If Renewal of Vows the woman’s married name is used. 

Example: Robert Smith and Linda Smith

Faith Traditions (if any), what are your religious backgrounds: Bride:_________________________________________________            Groom:________________________________________________                                                                                                                                               

Ceremony Information

A standard ceremony will be performed unless noted below.

Any information that will help us make your  ceremony more 

personalized:                       

Special readings: ______________________________________

To be read by:  Minister _______ or Guests ________________

Specify by whom: _____________________________________

Special rituals: __________________ (Like the Sand Ceremony,

Unity Candle, Lasso, etc.)

Will you exchange rings: _______ Yes  _______  No   

Do you have your own vows: _____  

Standard vows will be used ______

Other ________________________

Is this your first marriage? ________  Yes        _________ No

If not, do either of you have any children from your previous 

marriage? If so, what are their names? _____________________________________________________

(We can include a Family Wedding ceremony at the end to include 

the children in the ceremony).                                  

Do you want anyone mentioned during the ceremony, your parents, 

people who have passed, etc.  _____________________________

Please help us answering the following questions :

How did you meet? 

_______________________________________

_______________________________________

How long have you known each other? ________________

What activities/hobbies do you enjoy doing together?

_________________________________________________

_________________________________________________

Couple introduced as _____________________________

Examples: Mr. & Mrs. Robert Smith; Linda and Robert Smith, 

husband and wife; Linda and Robert Smith or your suggestion)

The Unity Candle Ceremony

__________ & ________, you have just sealed your relationship by the giving and receiving of rings. You have committed here today to share the rest of your lives with each other. This beautiful union is now symbolized by the lighting of the Unity Candle.

The two distinct flames represent your lives to this moment; individual and unique. The center candle you are about to light is a candle of Marriage. Its fire is magical because it represents the light of two people in love. It is a candle of Unity because both must come together, giving a spark of themselves, to create the new light. This candle is also a candle of Commitment because it takes two people working together to keep it aflame. It has been said that life is like a flame. It has its own warmth and its own brilliance. But it is in the union of Two that something brighter, warmer, more wonderful takes place.

_______ & __________, please light the center candle to symbolize the union of your lives.

As you have lit this candle today, may the brightness of the flame shine throughout your lives. May the radiance of this one light be a testimony of your unity. May this candle burn brightly as a symbol of your commitment to each other. May it give you courage and reassurance in darkness. Warmth and safety in the cold.   May it give you strength and joy in your bodies, minds and spirits. The life that each of you experienced now, individually, will hereafter be inseparably united, for the two shall become one. May your union be forever blessed. 

Rose Ceremony

In the Rose Ceremony, the Bride and Groom give each other a Rose. Two roses are all that is necessary. The Rose Ceremony is placed at the end of the ceremony just before being pronounced husband and wife. In the old language of flowers, a single red rose always meant "I love you". The Rose ceremony gives recognition to the new and most honorable title of "Husband and Wife".

Minister:  "Your gift to each other for your wedding today has been your wedding rings - which shall always be an outward demonstration of your vows of love and respect; and a public showing of your commitment to each other.

You now have what remains the most honorable title which may exist between a man and a woman - the title of "husband" and "wife." For your first gift as husband and wife, that gift will be a single rose.

In the past, the rose was considered a symbol of love and a single rose always meant only one thing - it meant the words "I love you." So it is appropriate that for your first gift - as husband and wife - that gift would be a single rose.

Please exchange your first gift as husband and wife. In some ways it seems like you have not done anything at all. Just a moment ago you were holding one small rose - and now you are holding one small rose. In some ways, a marriage ceremony is like this. In some ways, tomorrow is going to seem no different than yesterday. But in fact today, just now, you both have given and received one of the most valuable and precious gifts of life - one I hope you always remember - the gift of true and abiding love within the devotion of marriage.

_______ and ________, I would ask that where ever you make your home in the future - whether it be a large and elegant home - or a small and graceful one - that you both pick one very special location for roses; so that on each anniversary of this truly wonderful occasion you both may take a rose to that spot both as a recommitment to your marriage - and a recommitment that THIS will be a marriage based upon love.

In every marriage there are times where it is difficult to find the right words. It is easiest to hurt who we most love. It is easiest to be most hurt by who we most love. It might be difficult some time to words to say "I am sorry" or "I forgive you"; "I need you" or "I am hurting". If this should happen, if you simply can not find these words, leave a rose at that spot which both of you have selected - for that rose than says what matters most of all and should overpower all other things and all other words.

That rose says the words: "I still love you." The other should accept this rose for the words which can not be found, and remember the love and hope that you both share today.

_______ and ________, if there is anything you should remember of this marriage ceremony, it is that it was love that brought you here today, it is only love which can make it a glorious union, and it is by love that your marriage shall endure."

Ceremony of the Coins and the Lasso

It is the customary that the groom gives his new bride 13 gold coins during the ceremony and for the priest to bless the coins. The coins are a symbol of the groom’s commitment to support his new bride.

Minister:  To the Groom                       please repeat after me: I give you these coins as as a symbol that I shall always provide for you and our home.

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To the Bride:                     please repeat after me:  And I accept them and promise that I will always spend  wisely in our home.      

Placing of the Cord (Lasso)

Minister: Will you please put the Cord around their necks? (forming and 8)

Minister: This is a symbol that you  have been  united for life. What God has joined, let no man separate.

Blessing Stone Ritual

·      After the bride and groom walk down the aisle together, as the families follow, the guests are invited to participate in the Blessing Stone Ritual:

Family and Friends,

_______ & __________ ask that you participate in the Blessing Stone Ritual.  As you depart, please take a stone from the basket and follow __________ & _________ to the ocean.  Make a wish or blessing for them and cast your stone into the water.

Breaking of the Glass

The breaking of the glass at the end of a wedding ceremony serves to remind of two very important aspects of a marriage. The bride and groom - and everyone - should consider these marriage vows as an IRREVOCABLE ACT - just as permanent and final as the breaking of this glass is unchangeable. But the breaking of the glass also is a warning of the FRAILTY of a marriage. That sometimes a single thoughtless act, breech of trust, or infidelity can damage a marriage in ways that are very difficult to undo - just as it would be so difficult to undo the breaking of this glass. Knowing that this marriage is permanent, the bride and groom should strive to show each other the love and respect befitting their spouse and love of their life.

Just The Way You Are by Billy Joel

Don't go changing to try to please me,

You never let me down before.

I don't imagine you're too familiar,

And I don't see you anymore.

I would not leave you in times of trouble,

We could have never come this far.

I took the good times,

I'll take the bad times,

I take you just the way you are.

Don't try some new fashion,

Don't change the color of your hair,

You always have my unspoken passion,

Although I might not seem to care,

I don't want clever conversation,

Never want to work that hard,

I just want someone that I can talk to,

I want you just the way you are

I need to know that you will always be,

The same old someone that I knew.

Ah, what will it take till you believe in me,

The way that I believe in you?

I said I love you and that's forever,

And this I promise from the heart.

I could not love you any better,

I love you, I want you,

just the way you are.

This Ring- (unity song) by T Carter Music

I've been waiting for this moment for so long

An answered prayer,

I know you are the one 


I give to you my heart and soul 


With a love that will never grow old

In my life, I can see 


That you were made for me 


You'll be there to catch me if I fall 


I'll be there to catch you if you fall 


All the days, I have prayed 


And the love that I have saved 


I thank God for the gift He has given me 


A love that's strong for all of eternity 


I give to you all of my days 


With a love for all of your ways

With this ring, I'm giving you my all

In the days that we grow old 


The times may change but our love will remain 


As we look back on this day now 


We stood the test of time

Living the promise of our vow

WIth this ring, I'm giving you my all...

You're My Home - Lea Salonga

I close my eyes


And I can feel that you're a part of me


You are my home


Though I'm afar I'm in your company


I'm in you



I play my song


And I can hear you're in my melody


My life, my home


No matter what with you I'll always be



Come take my hand


Come fill your heart with all the love you see


Let every child


Be what they are, be what they wanna be



You're my home


And together we share this love for us


To be happy and free


you're my home


And together we'll strive to make this world


A better place to be



For you and me.


A MOMENT LIKE THIS by Kelly Clarkson

 


If I told you it was all meant to be,


Would you believe me?

Would you agree?


It's almost that feeling that we met before


So tell me that you don't think I'm crazy


When I tell you love has come here and now



A moment like this 


Some people wait a lifetime


For a moment like this


Some people search forever


For that one special kiss


Oh I can't believe it's happening to me


Everything changes but beauty remains


Something so tender
I can't explain


Well I may be dreaming but till I awake


Can we make this dream last forever?


And I'll cherish all the love we share



Could this be the greatest love of all


I wanna know that you will catch me when I fall


So let me tell you this


Some people wait a lifetime for a moment like this



Oh I can't believe it's happening to me.